There are a lot of stressed kids in our schools
Author: NiamhThere are a lot of stressed kids in our schools. According to a recent survey 44% of children feel stressed about how well they are doing in school. The real question is who causes that stress? Is it parents pushing them beyond their ability. Is it teachers pressurising them to do well in exams? Do they inflict it on themselves by setting themselves unrealistic goals?
In many cases teachers can help to make lessons a more positive experience. They have to think about the benefits using the power of positive feedback to stimulate and encourage students. It is also important that they create equity in the classroom because children have a great sense of fairness and if they feel they are being treated fairly and equally they will respond better. Teachers can also speak to parents about pushing children by explaining the need for lots of encouragement instead of pressure. They can also explain to parents that they must be realistic about the abilities of a particular child. Some may always be bad at maths but great at dancing. Everyone has talents but they are all different and just because your dad is a doctor doesn’t mean that science will be your best subject.
Above all though children should be encouraged to discover their own particular talents and skills whatever they may be. Maybe they have leadership qualities and, if so, could be encouraged to go for school head or captain of the football team… Perhaps they are charismatic rather than academic and their abilities as public speakers or organisers of a youth club might be explored. High achievers aren’t always the happiest children. Those who feel valued for what they are as people are much more likely to be content.
Above all children should have the opportunity to talk about their worries and to get the help necessary to deal with them. It might be difficult for them to come straight out and talk to someone about their problems… With a little organisation debates or discussion groups on worrying topics can throw a lot of light on what children are thinking. With the right attitude to stress you can beat it.
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